Mary Elizabeth (Atkinson) Klein (1916-2001)
I have been told that often in ethnic groups each family has an identifiable head. For instance in the Norwegian family circle there is usually a matriarch. Her influence often extends beyond the immediate family. Among German families there is supposedly a patriarch. This was manifest, at least in his later years, by my father-in-law, John Klein, Jr.
After grandpa’s retirement much of his time was spent in his large wooden rocking chair, puffin on his pipe, listening to the radio and frequently dozing off. His grandson, then three years old, was entranced by his grandpa’s “sleep show” and would break into chuckles as he stood and watched and listened. It was quite a production! First there was a period of heavy but regular breathing followed by a period of apnea, then several short breaths followed by an explosive burst of air. Little James was completely fascinated with this overture and would stand in front of grandpa’s chair anticipating the next climatic ‘sneezure’. Work in the garden.” And they did! In the winter judgment was pronounced on which day the ashes were to be carried or at what point the furnace should be stoked. It was difficult for him to maneuver stair steps so these chores fell to the hausfrau.
To get back to the garden, it was a picture to behold! Straight well kept rows with luxuriant foliage and well trained vines and caged bushes. Irrigation ditches were directed between the rows and hilled plants and could be shut off as desired. No self-respecting weed would dare raise its head. It would have been suicide! The whole plot reflected loving care, commitment and sweat.
Grandpa had a gruff voice and piercing eyes but his heart was like soft butter, at least in the years I knew him. However if he took a stand he was immovable. Barney and Loretta told stories that painted a different picture.
John worked hard in the blacksmith shop, shoeing horses, forging tools, making and sharpening plowshares, making machinery parts etc. One of Barney’s prized possessions was a potato planter, which his dad designed. It had scissors action handles with small platter sized shovels that were pushed into the ground, and then opened up to receive the potato portion, closed and withdrawn. This placed the “seed” about 5 or 6 inches deep. As the planter was withdrawn the soil rolled into the hole and covered the potato. It was also used to plant sweet corn. Another product from his shop was a boot hook, which Barney used almost daily. He favored a low cut boot sans zipper. The boot had a loop of leather on the back and near the top. The hook was inserted and used to pull the boot on.
On the way home from work, John would stop at one of the several local pool hall-taverns to lift a few glasses of Seagram or facsimile with his cronies. By the time he got home for supper life was often out of focus. The kids were often the brunt of his fogged perception. If he thought some one might be out of line he cleaned house on all so as not to miss the culprit.
Loretta recalled the time when they raising ducks in the back yard. They were destined to be part of the family food supply. (In those days, 1920s or there about, there were no ordinances in small towns to prohibit this) One particularly hot day she had been instructed to the fowl’s water pan filled. She was just a little girl and she said she ran her legs off carrying many, many pails of water, which she had to pump by hand from a shallow well near the garden. She felt she had done the job well but when her dad arrived home tired and bleary eyed the water pan was once again empty. He was not receptive to any explanations or excuses. She was the prime target for his anger that evening. I found it difficult to reconcile this image with the gentle man I knew.
When Barney was about fourteen his Dad quit drinking. He told it thus: “For some reason, watching my Dad trying to keep his balance and having difficulty getting food in his mouth at the supper table struck me as being funny and I would get the giggles.” Evidently Grandpa was cognizant of what was going on and he quit stopping at the pool hall. When his friends questioned him about it he replied, when the big boy starts laughing at you it is time to quit.” He would have a small glass of wine on special occasions but that was it.
He loved his family dearly and his grandson was the apple of his eye. James’ natal gift from him was a very small pair of cowboy boots. He came to see him nearly every day. We lived a half block away. After James was walking and could go by himself, he returned the calls. As soon as he was dressed and had his breakfast he would ask to go see Grandpa. When he arrived at Grandpa and Grandma’s house one of them would ask if he’d had breakfast and he invariably said no and he would sit at the table with them.
Holidays were special to the family and Grandpa spent more than he probably could afford to bring smiles and joy to his family. There were always gifts piled high under the Christmas tree and Loretta told about the Easter baskets, which were made from shoe boxes and hidden within the house for the children to find on Easter morning.
In his prime John stood 5 ft. 11in. and weighed around three hundred pounds. He has a football player physique due to the daily work out with hammer, anvil and forge. Shoeing horses was a frequent service. Horses or horses and buggy were the main means of transportation at the beginning of the 1900s for traveling short distances. It was while plying his horseshoeing skills that he met his future bride. (refer to GRANDMA)
I have alluded to Grandpa’s strength. Barney related two stories that bore this out. Both events happened prior to his marriage and were passed on by relatives and friends. In his younger days John reportedly had a short fuse, temper wise. One day he was shoeing a horse and the animal would not cooperate. After some wrestling with its upturned foot which he tried to hold between his knees as he secured the shoe with nails and hammer, he’d finally had it. He dropped the foot, stood up, and clenched a fist. Picture if you will the size of this potential missile; a bit larger than softball, more like a steel ball. He swung his fist at the horse’s head and the beast collapsed. At that moment his dad appeared at the door of the shop. He appraised what had happened and turned around and left, He was quoted as saying, “and it is best to stay away when John starts killing horses with his bare hands.”
The other manifestation of his super strength had to do with a promotion by John Deere Implement, Inc. The company came out with a new two-bottom plow, which was toted to be very easy to pull. Horses were the source of power for farm machinery at that time. To enhance the image of this latest model, John was enticed by a rep from the manufacturer to don a harness of sorts and was hooked to the plow. He did indeed pull and cut a respectable double furrow through sod. An opportunist who was part of the delegation present from the John Deere headquarters in Chicago tried to talk John in going back with him and become a professional boxer. I am so thankful he declined; otherwise I probably would not have met his son.
There came a time when blacksmithing was no longer lucrative. Automation supplanted equine power and plowshares eventually became a disposable item. Grandpa John got into a new trade. He turned to plastering (no dry walls in that era). He also stuccoed houses and did related brick, stone and cement work. He hired his two bother-in-laws and another man to assist him. In the years just before and after WW11, his son Barney worked with him. Some of his work is still visible in Eureka and surrounding area. The stonewall around Eureka City Park and the gateposts and other stonework at Lake Eureka were done under his supervision. The native stone Veterans of Foreign Wars building on US 12 on the west edge of Roscoe, SD was erected under Barney’s supervision about 1940. It was an NYA project. (National Youth Administration) The program was designed to provide employment for young people in economically depressed areas and to teach them a trade.
In the late years of Grandpa’s life he developed a congestive heart and although he took medication it eventually claimed his life. Much of the later years he spent listening to the radio serials. Not many homes had television. He and Grandma visited Loretta and her husband, Elmer Lutz, at their farm home from time to time. They had spent this particular Sunday there. Elmer and Loretta had gone to do the chores following the evening meal. They would take their guests back to town and home when they finished. (Grandpa never mastered the art of car driving). Grandmas was doing up the dirty dishes and Grandpa was resting in the big easy chair. She noted the time and saw it was nearly time for one of his favorite programs, “Jack Armstrong, the All American Boy”. She called a reminder to him. He did not answer so she went in the living room where he apparently had fallen asleep. She shook his arm to rouse him and realized that he was not breathing. He had gone quietly, without a sound.